Try, try and try more
How many times people told you ‘’keep trying’’? I assume many times. In fact too many times. You must know that they are right. You must try to reach your goals. Things that will happen during that journey are irrelevant. Some of them will be bad, some good, some you cannot even define, but they will happen. Only this is important. You can make excuses that bad things that happened to you are fate or curse, but they are just waves of other people’s actions.
Whatever you do, don’t give up. Life is a battle. Yes, it is a more civilized battle, and there are no some huge losses, but it is a battle. We have winners, losers and collateral damage. A good thing is that you can be a winner. This isn’t some unreachable thing, it is just the result of your actions. For example, mistakes are important. Not because you will be more careful after making a mistake, but you will know better and you won’t make the same mistake ever again. Don’t look at the mistakes made by other people. They are other mistakes that doesn’t mean anything to you. Pay attention to your mistakes only.
Losing hope is the main reason for giving up. There are many reasons why we can lose it, but an interesting fact is that all of those reasons can be motivation. If you don’t have something, but you want it, you will try harder, and this is a good thing. In fact, this is the secret for happiness and successful life. After all, we only want a happy life.